I have a friend who once said that some things are cliché because they are true.  Phrases that seem trite and overused are sometimes the best way to say what we want to say.  They have become clichés because they express a truth like nothing else really can.

At times, I fight against what it seems a lot of people like or consider to be the best.  But sometimes, it is because it is actually good that so many people rave about specific things.  On Facebook, I’ve seen quite a few people talking about how much they loved the show “This Is Us.”  With the school year wrapped up, I decided to give it a try.

I don’t think a show has ever pulled at my heart as much as this one has.

I love how they portray the complexity of the human heart.  In this show, families are messy, imperfect, and crucial to our own identity.  As the show unfolds, perfect facades crumble to reveal that everyone is striving to get through life doing the best they can and making numerous mistakes along the way.  It is very human, which makes it simultaneously beautiful and frustrating.  Though the families can be chaotic, a theme interwoven in the show is the importance of family.  Whether they are blood relations or adopted family, the experiences we have in our homes shape how we interact with the rest of the world.

This Is Us- Season 1
THIS IS US — Pictured: “This Is Us” Horizontal Key Art — (Photo by: NBCUniversal)

In a world that seems to insist that families can be replaced with technology or friend groups, it is refreshing to see families upheld as the place where we grow, change, and become who we are.  Imperfect families, with parents fighting their own struggles and children feeling their own unique pains, are the places that shape us and show us how to love.  “This Is Us” doesn’t claim that all families are perfect or should be perfect.  I would say they are simply claiming that the role of family is irreplaceable.  

Part of me wants to go through all of the episodes I’ve watched so far and tell you why I like them.  But I won’t, because I want you to experience it for yourselves.  Instead, I want to give a quote that comes up multiple times, but it is spoken in the very first episode.

The doctor who delivers the babies tries to comfort the father by giving him some advice.  He says, You took the sourest lemon that life has to offer and turned it into something resembling lemonade.”  The show reveals that this sage (perhaps cliché) advice relates to so many people in so many different ways, in the show but also in my own life.  This runs as another theme through “This Is Us” because, while cliche, it is true.

In a way, this is the theme of Christianity.  From the darkest pain comes the glory of the Resurrection.  In the midst of our own difficulties, we can strive to see how grace is present and active, transforming pain into beauty.  It doesn’t mean we deny that pain exists, but rather that we choose to see through it and embrace the goodness to be found in this gift called life.

It might be cliche to call life a gift.  Regardless, it is true.


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3 thoughts on “This Is Us

  1. This is great! “…claiming that the role of family is irreplaceable” exactly sums up why I love the show. Just wondering, what do you think about Randal’s birth father’s sexuality? Artistically speaking, it did add a tiny bit of conflict, but I mostly felt like it was kind of tacked on/unnecessary — my one issue with the show, since obviously as Catholics we don’t want to see homosexual relationships more normalized. But then, at least it was a fairly minor plot-line.

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    1. Thanks for reading and commenting!

      When this was revealed, I couldn’t help but feel like it was unnecessary. I maybe even said, “Come on!” While it added a bit of conflict, the conflict had to seem very minimal so as to maintain the stance of tolerance and open-mindedness. I appreciated that it was a minor plot line but it seemed unnecessary to have in the show. I believe other conflicts could have used to create the tension of feeling like his biological father is still a stranger.


      1. Yeah, that’s exactly it. I couldn’t quite put my finger on it, but that’s totally why it wasn’t even the best choice artistically. Because Randall was in a way disturbed by it (as is our natural first reaction) but because he’s “not a homophobe” and they wanted it to be tolerant etc., they couldn’t actually explore why this impacted him at all. So it’s sort of like, “Let’s introduce this conflict that can’t be developed…” You’re right, a different conflict would have worked much better.


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